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The Art of The Quickie - Sexy Mama Style
Remember those nights when you and your beloved would spend hours gazing into each other’s eyes, drinking each other in, the Kama Sutra open next to your love nest, soft candlelight reflecting off warm skin, oils and lubes waiting. And then somebody said “Let’s have a baby”.
Now I love babies, my life is dedicated to pregnancy and birth, but let’s be realistic- that little picture I just painted doesn’t happen too often after kids are added to the family.
Hot Sex During Pregnancy
The secret is out! Sex during pregnancy is hot!
Your juicy bits are juicier, your breasts are fuller and your nipples are more sensitive. Your skin is glowing, your hair is lush and you are a life affirming goddess.
So lay back, get comfortable and let’s learn a few things about loving those sensuous curves.
Long term gay male couples and non-monogamy
Research shows that approximately two thirds of long-term male couples who have been together for five years or more are non-monogamous and honest about that.
A new study, Beyond Monogamy: lessons from long term male couples in non-monogamous relationships examines this lifestyle option. The authors interviewed 86 couples and from that emerged the reasons why a majority of gay men choose to have more than one lover and be open with their partner(s) about that.
Advice For The Sexy Masses - A little role reversal...
Dear Kat,
I'm so shy, I don't know how to ask this, but...well, I've always wanted to penetrate my boyfriend but he's really homophobic. We experiment with a lot of things, but I'm scared of how he will react to me wanting to wear a strap on so that I can penetrate him. Should I keep it to myself or try to talk to him about it? How do you suggest I do that?
Advice on taking it all!
Can you give me some advice on how to deepthroat when giving oral sex? I don't know how to get past my gag reflex. I've tried several different things and they haven't worked. Is this just something you're born with, or is there some secret thing you can do? I've heard about using a lubricant. Does that work, and what would be the best kind to use. I would love to do this for my boyfriend? Thank you bunches,
Blow Job Betty
How sex-haters harm us
A few people who hate can affect everyone else in the culture.
Consider how a small cabal of Islamic woman-haters in Saudi Arabia or Iran can deprive a majority of the population basic rights.
When we look at antisexual prejudice we find the same tyranny of the minority.
It is so common as to be barely noticed.
Am I Normal? The Two Most Common Sexual "Problems"
North American society has a unique way of contributing to a LOT of confusion about sexuality. On one level, we receive a message that sex is hot and exciting… and something to be celebrated and enjoyed.
On another level, we’re told that it’s dangerous (i.e. you might get a sexually transmitted infection or become pregnant) and that we should try to reduce the number of sexual partners we have. Add the complicated factors of religion (sex should only happen in the context of marriage) and/or society’s messages about what is beautiful (beautiful = young and thin)...
Teen pregnancy may be down but STI's are rising
Canadians are busy congratulating themselves on a new study that shows a dramatic decline in the rate of teen pregnancies.
The study from the Sex Information and Education Council of Canada, based on Statistics Canada figures, found that teen pregnancies decreased by nearly 37 per cent nationally and 35 per cent in British Columbia in the 10-year period between 1996 and 2006.
Liquor Law: Violence OK; Sex not OK
This weekend Vancouver hosted the blood drenched spectacle of mixed martial arts at GM Place. Over 17,000 fans filled the place, many sipping beer.
Five fighters were sent to the hospital. One had a broken arm. Another had been knocked out.
GM Place, like your average bar, is a licensed premise. What goes on in the ring has to conform to BC liquor laws.
Canada is talking about Women's sexual desire
The majority of Canadains describe sexual desire as feelings of longing, craving, or even the need for sensual indulgence, but the Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada (SOGC) wants women and health professionals to know that desire is more than just a feeling. It is about over all physical health.
Canada Sex News
Nina Arsenault's critically-acclaimed autobiographical play, The Silicone Diaries, will brighten stages this fall and next year across Canada
Fewer than one in 10 Canadian brides-to-be believes in abstaining from sex until their wedding night
The Guelph Sexuality Conference,will focus on finding innovative ways of using art and technology to communicate sexual health and education.
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Sex Research
The Moral Necessity of Comprehensive Sex Education
This paper examines the conflicting views regarding childhood and adolescent sexual education and the moral frame works from which they developed. Explored issues include childhood exposure to such contentious topics as homosexuality, masturbation, non coital play and alternative relationship forms and what values, if any, should be stressed. It is argued that only comprehensive sex education fulfills the conditions of a functional morality that allows everyone to lead happy, meaningful and productive lives.