Sexy Mama
Reclaiming Your Sexual Self After Baby
I know I’m doing this backwards but this month we are going to talk about reclaiming your sexual self after baby AND next month we will talk about reclaiming your sexual self while pregnant.
So, which part made you laugh hysterically: reclaiming your sexual self, the very thought of a sexual self after baby or just the concept of sex in general?
Erotic Talk for New Parents
When you become a parent your conversation skills devolve into three main topics: poo, vomit and sleeping habits. Now, those topics may get you through a playdate but they are NOT going to help in the bedroom.
So, come on, let’s put sexy back into your vocabulary.
Step One: Find Your Comfort Zone
The Hotel Room- A Sexy Mama’s Best Friend
Fact- it is difficult to get your freak on with your sweet little baby sleeping in the next room. And while co-sleeping is perfect for breastfeeding & bonding it definitely puts a crimp in your love life. Do you know how hard it is to have an earth shattering orgasm when the only thing running through your mind is “Hmmm, is that vibration from my nipples clamps or my let-down reflex?”
The Sexy Mama solution: get a hotel room.
The Art of The Quickie - Sexy Mama Style
Remember those nights when you and your beloved would spend hours gazing into each other’s eyes, drinking each other in, the Kama Sutra open next to your love nest, soft candlelight reflecting off warm skin, oils and lubes waiting. And then somebody said “Let’s have a baby”.
Now I love babies, my life is dedicated to pregnancy and birth, but let’s be realistic- that little picture I just painted doesn’t happen too often after kids are added to the family.
Hot Sex During Pregnancy
The secret is out! Sex during pregnancy is hot!
Your juicy bits are juicier, your breasts are fuller and your nipples are more sensitive. Your skin is glowing, your hair is lush and you are a life affirming goddess.
So lay back, get comfortable and let’s learn a few things about loving those sensuous curves.
