National Sexlife Journal

Toronto’s Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair

 Toronto’s only Erotic Arts and Crafts Fair (EACF) returns for its sixth year on Saturday, February 11, to celebrate the city’s diverse erotic artistic expression in crafty and quirky ways.

Presented by the Queen West co-operative sex shop, Come As You Are, this year’s EACF will feature free admission, extended hours and more vendors, along with the introduction of a cabaret performance following the fair and an after-party, all held at The Gladstone Hotel.

Nina Arsenault: Transcending the Transsexual Identity

 Nina Arsenault: Transcending the Transsexual Identity
by Peter Berton

To describe Toronto’s Nina Arsenault as a ‘transsexual artist’ is akin to calling Chateau Lafite Rothschild a ‘Bordeaux wine’. Although both descriptions are technically accurate, they are woefully inadequate understatements.

In Nina’s case, she has taken her male-to-female transition as the starting point of an multidisciplinary artistic career that has won her iconic status. In doing so, she has transcended that transition to learn far more about herself and the world than she expected.

Astrid Grey: Ottawa’s ‘Vintagely Curvaceous’ Companion

 Astrid Grey: Ottawa’s ‘Vintagely Curvaceous’ Companion
by Peter Berton

I met Astrid Grey during the recent CERB (Canadian Escort Recommendation Board) Christmas Social in Ottawa. Astrid is a tall, striking and well-blessed woman, but what will really catch your attention is the quality of her mind. She is smart, witty, and – as she likes to described herself – “impish”.

So intrigued was I by Astrid that I asked to her to take part in a Sex Life Canada one-to-one interview. She graciously complied!

Sex Life Canada: Please tell us about yourself.

Sex Workers Take Case to Supreme Court

The federal government has challenged a case brought before the Supreme Court of Canada by Vancouver representatives Downtown Eastside Sex Workers United Against Violence (SWUAV), arguing that they do not meet the legal requirements for public interest standing. Because the plaintiff, Sheryl Kiselbach, is not being charged with any of the offenses in question and is no longer pursuing sex work, it can be argued that her rights are not being deprived.

Make a copy of your favorite vagina!

New Book: Manuela's Manual: An illustrated instruction manual explaining in detail how to make a realistic, life size and very sensuous plaster sculpture of a vulva; a fun, easy and sexy art project for playful couples.
by Manuela Lollenbeck

Discover the joy of genital casting. This book demonstrates how to make a plaster sculpture of a vulva. That's right. In a few steps you can make a highly realistic and durable representation of your favorite vagina.

First Same-Sex Marriage for Conservative Synagogue

On Jan 21, Shaarey Zedek Synagogue in Winnipeg will become the first conservative synagogue in Canada to sanction a same-sex marriage under its roof.

The synagogue started reaching out to Winnipeg’s LGBTQ community in 2007, announcing a three year process of lifting barriers between gender and sexual minorities and synagogue participation.

Same-sex couples would be allowed to be buried beside each other, be eligible for family memberships at the synagogue, and to hold commitment ceremonies and eventually marriages.

Foreign Same-Sex Marriages Valid

Justice Minister Rob Nicholson says the government will fix the “legislative gap” that called marriages performed in Canada between same-sex nonresidents into question. Questions around the validity of marriages among same-sex people who traveled to Canada because they could not wed in their home countries arose when a foreign lesbian couple sought a divorce, only to be told they were never really married.

A Look Inside a TGirl's World, Courtesy of TS Sunshine's Blog

 A Look Into the Tgirl World, Courtesy of TS Sunshine’s Blog
by Peter Berton

Sex news, wit, and advice for first-time tgirl lovers: You’ll find it all in TS Sunshine’s blog. Found on this Calgary tgirl escort’s website at blog.ts-sunshine.ca, Sunshine’s blog is thought-provoking, fun, and erotic.

SexLifeCanada.ca recently asked Sunshine why she got into the blog business – and why the website that accompanies it is so classy:

G-Twist G3

I’ve talked to quite a few people who loved this vibrator and, while I can see the appeal, it doesn’t rank among my favorites.

That’s not to say the G-Twist by Fun Factory isn’t good. It’s 100% Silicone, so it’s easy to clean. The controls are improved, I’m not fumbling with it to change the speed, but it also doesn’t turn on if I accidentally bump my nightstand the way the previous G2 series would. And it’s relatively quiet for such a powerful vibe.

DJ Gives Up Sex for A Year

Someone to keep in mind when your New Years resolution starts to feel too hard to keep: the Winnipeg radio DJ who went an entire year without sex.

Marcel ‘No Sex’ Williams of the hip hop station 104.7 Streetz FM resolved to give up sex last New Years as a publicity stunt but plans to carry it into 2012. Williams says the experience helped him to understand “the value of saving yourself for somebody else” and has started speaking to youth about abstinence.

As for me, I think I’d rather quit smoking.

Kevin Dong, Homegrown T-Girl Photographer

 The Hard Life of Kevin Dong
by Peter Berton

Pity poor Kevin Dong. As a staff photographer for Grooby.com, Kevin spends his days taking photographs of the world’s most beautiful t-girls. (He speaks about his hard life at his site,
www.toronto-tgirls.com).

Now that we think of it, don’t feel sorry for Kevin Dong. He’s doing exactly what he wants and getting paid for it! Here’s what his life is like:

SexLifeCanada (SLC): Please tell us about yourself:

HIV Nondisclosure Shouldn't Mean Jail Time: doctor

Canadians who fail to disclose their HIV-positive status to sexual partners shouldn’t face jail time, according to Dr. Julio Montaner, director of the BC Centre for Excellence in HIV/AIDS. Montaner says that new drug cocktails have reduced the viral load for people with the virus to undetectable and reported in the current issue of the Canadian Medical Association Journal that a randomized trial saw a 96 percent decrease in transmission risk.

The GFE Explained!

 Finally, The GFE Explained
by Peter Berton

What the heck is the ‘GFE’? Why do so many sex workers offer it – and why do their customers ask for it?

To find out, we convened a panel of three respected, knowledgeable and erudite sex workers. They are Carrie Moon, Emma Alexandra Page, and Nikki Thomas (who is also Executive Director of Sex Professionals of Canada). They were more than happy to tell us about the GFE – and why it appeals to clients and sex workers alike.

Sex Life Canada (SLC): What is the GFE?

Polyamory and the recent court decision

Open letter to the Canadian Polyamory Community
From the CPAA representative at the Constitutional Reference court case

Hello everyone:

It has been two weeks since the Polygamy Reference court decision was released by Chief Justice Baumann of the BC Supreme Court. I have thought a great deal about the case since then, and communicated with lawyers and people in our legal team about how that decision affects the members of the Canadian polyamory community.

A Gentleman's Eye-View of Escorts

The myths attached to sex worker clients are probably only second to those assigned to sex workers themselves.

So what kind of person pays for sex? We decided to find out, courtesy of a recommendation from a respected Canadian sex worker.

The client in question called himself ‘Notorious Gentleman’. Contrary to the popular stereotype, Notorious Gentleman is anything but a drooling sex-crazed maniac with no regard for the women whose services he hires. (This is why he was recommended to us.)

Plaything: Fuzuoko 9000

I cannot say enough good things about this mini vibe.

It was one of my first and I have repurchased it twice. It is my favourite for so many reasons.

First, it is one of the most versatile toys I have ever owned. I have used it alone, during oral, and during penetrative sex.

Second, I love that it attaches to your finger, so you don’t have to worry about losing your grip on it during playtime.

Herbal Sex Aids Banned

Health Canada has banned Chong Cao She Bian Zhuang Yang Dan, an herbal remedy for impotence, as well as Yanshiwang and Jin Kong Fu, general herbal sex aids. The products have been ordered of the shelves in stores in Richmond and Burnaby, B.C. after they were tested and found to contain undeclared prescription medication.

"We would like to remind Canadians that prescription medication should only be used under the supervision of a health care practitioner,” says Health Canada.

Source: CTV.ca

Court rules polyamorist relationships are lawful

 The BC Supreme Court issued a ruling today that affects the sex-positive community in Canada. The court held that the vaguely worded 120 year old law prohibiting polygamous marriage, and originally aimed at patriarchal religious sects like those at Bountiful BC, does not apply to cohabiting polyamorous families in common law relationships.

This is a big relief to the polyamorous community in Canada. Prior to the court case the poorly worded law could have been interpreted as prohibiting any family with more than two adults.

In Memory of Trans Lives Lost

More than 175 people attended the demonstration at The Carnegie Community Center in Vancouver, B.C., one of 13 gatherings around Canada in honour of Transgender Day of Rememberance. Survivors, activists, and allies gathered on Novemer 20th to mourn the hundreds of trans* people who are killed in the world each year. Gatherings also took place in the USA, Hong Kong, India, France, the UK, and The Philippines, among other countries.

My BDSM Journey: the evolution of conclusions

I remember quite vividly the scene that lay before me as I walked into the hotel for my first ever play party in the fall of 2007.

I remember the brightly lit lobby, my heart pounding as my friend and I made our way to the hotel room door and the way my heart seemed to stop as I stood in front of it, listening to muffled yelps and slapping sounds coming from the other side, envisioning the kiss of leather on skin and the writhing bodies underneath.

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