Rosa Nomore's profile

Birth year: 
1963
Education: 
Bachelors Degree
Relationship status: 
In a relationship
Gender orientation: 
Female
Sexual orientation: 
Hetero-flexible
Religious Views: 
Eclectic - Heathenish
Province: 
Newfoundland and Labrador
City: 
St. John's
About Me: 

Writer, blogger, Cougar, sensualist, valkyrie, kinkster, erotica-lover, heathen,...boldy going where I have not gone before...

User's Blog

Releasing the Wildness Within

One of the most interesting thing about being a Keeper or Dominant is how I'm learning to recognize what the facial expressions and physical responses from my Pet mean during play. I've been pleasantly surprised and absolutely humbled at the variety of responses I've had the pleasure of evoking over the time we've been play partners. In the past several weeks, Pet and I have discovered a whole new level of response, albeit quite accidentally. And in this instance, the experience has profoundly affected us both.

Contemplating Sensual Dominance

Today a friend asked me for some thoughts on sensual domination as she is playing with a submissive who says he really isn't into pain. I started typing and before long, a blog post was born! Hope you enjoy it.

Most folks who say that they aren't into pain often think most BDSM play is all about inflicting maximum pain. Of course this is not necessarily the case. Play can incorporate many levels and types of stimulation, but play is about much more than pain. For me, play usually incorporates one or more of the following aspects:

Another Ejaculatory Adventure!

A while ago I wrote about my first experience ejaculating during orgasm. To be honest, at the time I wondered if it would ever happen again. I really couldn't say how or why it happened then, only that it did. It was as if lightning had struck, you know?

The DIY Approach to CBT

Our local kink community is preparing for its first larger scale event - two days of workshops where folks can share their knowledge and experiences with others and two evenings of play parties. I've submitted (and had accepted) a proposal for a ninety minute workshop on CBT (cock and ball torment/torture). Now I'll be the first to admit that I'm no expert - but I will lay claim to being a safe, sane and enthusiastic beginner who is eager to share with others what a blast this can be!

A Very Memorable Night

I'm struck by how surreal today has been. This is, no doubt, part of the lasting after-effect of a play party last evening.

I will confess to being a little nervous and excited as the event approached. While Pet and I have played together for almost a year, this was our first play party. During his last visit we had discussed a possible game plan for the evening. Of course, nothing ever goes as planned. In this case; however, the results were far better than expected. But I'm getting ahead of myself.